Saturday, March 17, 2007

"Unlocked Friendship"

Friends, what a very nice word, they are said to be someone that we can approached in times of need, someone to whom we can share our problems and our savior. There such a time you have a problem and that problem is about you and your friend, what will you do? Will you just forget about it or you will find a way to have a private talk with him so that you can fasten your problem? Here are the incidents that tells about the on and off friendship of my cronies and I.

When I step in U.P, the first idea comes to my mind that here a lot in me will change such as my behavior, more knowledge to have and most of all new friends to collect. Speaking of friends truly I collected most number of cronies from the other schools. I also have my clump of friends comprises of my past classmates and until now they are still my classmates. We have such banded moments, we eat together, sometimes in our room but mostly in our classmates’ sari-sari store where there we can eat freely and have some colloquy to each other with funny responses.
Our friendship became firmer than what we have expected but then suddenly it ended up temporarily because of some conflicts. One had bad feelings to someone because she was insulted and disappointed of what people said about her. Other one attempted to leave us because she was down at that time and very upset so she felt not going with us. And then there such time that I felt exasperated with them because they just simply ignore me without telling me what the mainspring is. So I tried my best to follow them wherever they go hoping that they will recognize my presence but instead of recognizing me they just ignore me as usual.
Few days after the weather seemed fine so I’m thinking that their minds were also fine. I went to school and when I started approaching the door I walked slowly towards the door and went inside the room without looking a little face of my classmates. During recess time I sat on a corner thinking of the incident happened, then they went near to me asking what happened to me instead I’m the one will asked that question. All of us had a private talk and suddenly we became closed again and as usual they uttered some funny words to help us forget about it and became cheerful again. Our friendship arises again and it is now open to others.

So friendship doesn’t mean that we will be free from problems, it doesn’t mean also that through friendship you can avoid quarreling or fighting each other with your friends. Friendship generally means a tasked whether your relationship with your friends is sturdy enough, you can face the challenges and trials between you and your friends and most of all you can realize what’s the true role of love in your friendship.

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